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Being a natural thing, sex implies in emotional and physical
connections between two lovers. That way, it can be both stimulant and relaxing
at the same time, giving more pleasure to those involved. But now, with all the
rush, pressure and stress that we live in, many people hold sex just as an
escape route from daily routine, a way to recover psychologically from a hard
day work. And stress, two folded by expectation and performance concerns, can
take all the fun out of the sexual relation, turning it just a bureaucratic
thing. That's why there are several ways of relaxation before sex - and sexual
massage is one of them.
Throughout the centuries, massage techniques have evolved over
to professional standards and recognized way of soothing and healing. And
techniques are just as many, each one aims to reach specifically which situation
there could be applied successfully. Sexual massage is an example. But what is
the purpose of this kind of massage? It knocks stress out of the scene, and
replaces by something bigger, shifting focus on orgasm over the whole body,
arousing sexually and relaxing at same time. The idea originally comes from
Taoist traditions, which are built around increasingly energy flow through the
body. They call such energy Chi, the life-giving force, and base their methods
on the concept that chi can be spread through the body during sexual massage. It
slows down our metabolic rate, without taking off the atmosphere and the
excitement. Besides, sexual massage not only relaxes but also aids to build up
sexual energy, as it circulates more freely so passes through the whole
system.
Sure, not everybody knows about that. In fact, sexual massage
is something that the majority doesn't know and won't practice either. But books
are innumerous and some even pictorial - written by respected chaps on their
areas. Expertise not only explains, but also gives tips and guides foolproof
anyone wising to try a hand at sexual massage. Of course, a lot of sites on the
internet feature information on the subject. Therefore, clues are given for
those getting to grips with it. As it really pays off - when waiting on the
shape of things to come, it'll arrive rather intense.
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