Having sex for the first time, a subject likely to
lead a teenager astray. On top of being such wonderful experience that
follows you for the rest of your life, though there are many things to keep in
mind. As any new experience, there's no way to know everything about having
sex, so only practice will clue you up to enjoy a heightening sexual
life. Girls having sex behave in a complete different manner than
boys having sex. Such discrepancies need to be respected and addressed in
order to promote a healthy and straightforward relationship.
When feeling ready for having sex, sometimes it's
wise to seek help of a teacher, older friend or sibling or even parents.
However, don't trust hearsay, just do your best to make sure you're not doing
anything that might further problems. When it comes to teens having sex,
always are there a lot of myths and misconceptions referring particularly to
contraception methods.
Getting comfortable is essential as far as people having
sex goes. You should feel comfortable with not only whoever you are about to
have sex with, but with your own body as well, chosen location if possible
should be more calm and special than the car backseat and the contraceptive
method. If you choose wearing condoms, try to learn how to go about it
beforehand. It will prevent silly drawbacks that usually happen with couples
having sex.
Be sure you are really ready to have sex for the first
time. There's no specific age for a person to start out his sexual life and no
one has the right to interfere by saying whether you must have sex now or
else. Ask yourself a few questions to know if having sex now is really
such a good idea.
- Does sex really fit in your personal values right
now? Do you really want to do it now and with this one partner?
- Do you feel
coerced by your partner to have sex? Be sure you are going to bed for
your own decision and not induced or pressured by others.
- Do you have
proper information about STD and contraceptive methods? Do you really know how
they work and what for?
Once you have come to terms with queries, you may consider
sex as the best thing to do ever.
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