What's bisexuality all about? Is it sex for the split personality alike?
We have heard a lot about that person who like to relate with either men or
women and receive the nickname of Gillette. Gillette? Isn't it a double edge
blade? It's more or less how a bisexual person is perceived. But this is such
rough connotation. The reality of bisexuality is far more complex and broader
than raw sex. As staple characteristic, a man feels sexually and affectively
attracted by women, but also by same sex individuals. The same goes with women,
in other words, bound to feel attracted by both men and same sex individuals,
nonetheless, not necessarily one at time. And nowhere near, what had you might
being thinking of sex. It's boils down to each feeling at time, in its place; as
it were, in the heart of the bisexual there's always room for everybody's
loving.
For the heterosexuals, bisexuality means something of disgraceful people, and
for the homosexuals, it's something to do with unresolved homosexuals. It goes
without saying that bias in confront to bisexuality turns out extremely
downright, and all surrounded. This issue deserves all due respect as apart of
sexuality that imbues mystery and even fascination, if not intriguing. Let's
check.
Nobody is born with an established idea about sexual vocation. Bisexuality
should be regarded as a sex choice, after all, nobody is born aware of what
future holds, what one will turn out to be, and that is an old hat. Further, to
try and understand one's inner self becomes a lot harder due to people's minds
overburden with prejudice hampering elucidation of sexuality mysteries of the
humans.
Biologically speaking, we're born either man or woman, physically perfect
beings and defined by the eyes of society. But behavior will take shape poised
by all conceivable influences, within a context in which is inserted as far as
the bio-psycho-social cycle is concerned.
At the blossom of adolescence, whereupon coming to terms with the bodily
chemistry, hankers and sex urges to name a few begin to take place. Sex drawn
curiosity gets propelled at full blown by hormonal rampage and all turns rather
complicated. This is a conflicting period for the teenage alike let alone qualms
on self-sexuality at its peak. What to think of it, for example, when a boy
fancies girls but at the same time can't help the crush mulling his head for a
roommate or school colleague,. My goodness. What's going on here then? Would he
be liable of psychological underpinning? These and other relevant matters will
likely to permeate his mind for sometime as in conflict with own sexual
choices.
Let's say that this boy has already experienced sex with his opposite
but feels as if there's something missing. From this point on, restlessness
search for the right person commences. Once his faint idea of what's with him
translates in finding his soul mate. Although his lust for the same sex
remains present there, he nonetheless undermines it and winds up suppressing it
altogether. A process as lengthy as perhaps painful. After all, he no longer
feels like the other boys of his age, and the society, much as ever,
discriminates those who are different, and the fear of being different overrides
his decision making. So as bisexual, he might remain perched on top of the wall
for many years to come. And then, this very person, in realizing how imperative
is to have the other complimentary part, in this particular case of same sex
individual, who in turn, already perceives himself as bisexual, will have to
catch up with feelings by making arrangements to try and live as best as he can
with it. If prejudice carries him away, depending on his modus vivendi, he would
let himself in for a two-fold situation. If having to carry on ditching either
sex, surely he will feel as if eternally unfulfilled.
Sexuality issues of bisexuality encompasses a broader view and so
should further
approach in upcoming articles. Fascinating sexuality
laced with mysteries of the bisexual sex
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